“We’re not in Kansas, anymore.”
Ah, Dorothy. She had landed in Oz, a magical place over the rainbow where dreams come true. But by the end of her mystical journey she longed to go home. Well, in the summer of 1985, I was in Kansas and wondering if Dorothy was completely bonkers. It took me a month to appreciate why she would want to leave Oz and return to her family.
It started the day after school got out. I knew my family was going on vacation because I had seen Mom packing the night before. But, like every other summer trip we had taken, the destination would be a surprise. My parents were very spontaneous people who loved surprises. They enjoyed (a little too much, in my opinion) playing the guessing game. We kids would beg for hints and then gather our information to try to solve the vacation mystery. The only hint given this year was, “We will be flying there.” My siblings and I were convinced, just convinced, that we were finally going to Disney World. But Mom’s reply was simply, “Nope, it’s better than Disney.” WHAT could possibly be better?
On the way to the airport the next morning we were given our plane tickets and told that on the count of three we could open them together. We tore open the envelopes and the car went silent. Topeka, Kansas? Really?
“We’re going to see your grandparents and stay at their ranch for a few weeks!” my mom screeched. Somehow we did not share in her enthusiasm but we were all too polite to show our disappointment. Of course we were happy to be visiting Nana and Pop for the first time since they had moved to the mid-West, but staying on a ranch was not in the same league as coasting on the Magic Mountain.
After arriving in Topeka, we drove for several hours until we reached Cottonwood Falls. The town wa
s as dry as the name implies. Finally we saw the sign, “Bull’s Run Ranch”. Turning right we drove for several more miles. “Mom,” I complained, “I thought we were there already.” She smiled and replied, “Honey, we are. This road is their driveway!”
The Wizard of Oz had done justice to this territory. The flat land reached to the horizon and not a tree was to be found. There was one small creek running along the inside of the fence. I was a New England girl who loved to explore the woods, hike and fish with my dad, and, of course, visit the shore as often as I could. No wonder Dorothy dreamed of somewhere over the rainbow.
Nana was there to greet us and she hadn’t changed a bit since I’d last seen her. Her sweet plump face was curved up in a huge smile. Her hair was such a mix of greys, whites and blacks; it reminded me of a seashell. She stood at least a foot shorter than Pop and seemed to have shrunk a little more. Pudgy and strong, she was made for ranch life. She and Pop were from the mid-west originally and had returned there to spend their golden years in peace. I had never seen her so happy.
I rushed to hug them and right away the familiar scents of Nana’s lavender powder and Pop’s VO-5 hair gel brought me back to my childhood. Right away I could tell something was wrong with Pop. The tall, strong, Navy veteran who once taught me to ride horses and hit fast balls had withered into someone I barely recognized. He could not rise from his rocking chair and, when he held me in his lap, I could feel the bones of his legs beneath mine. His voice was weak like a child’s, not the robust voice I remembered. He was pale and his breathing seemed to be an effort. His blue eyes still sparkled but they seemed to have sunk into his face. I could tell he had tried to look his best for us in an effort to hide his ill health, but his efforts were in vain. He couldn’t hide his sallow skin color or the shaking of his hands. Pop had battled diabetes his whole life. It looked like he was losing the fight.
I went out to sit on the front porch swing wallowing in my own misery. The selfish teenager in me could not comprehend spending weeks of my summer vacation in a place where the smell of manure permeated everything and the closest mall was at least an hour away. At the same time, the kid in me was miserable at the thought of my grandfather suffering and struggling against this awful disease. I knew he was too old to fight anymore and we were here to witness his final battle. I was drowning in disappointment and sadness and the tears flooded my eyes until I could not hold them back.
My mother came out and held me. She rocked the swing to and fro as she hummed her favorite song, “You Are My Sunshine.” She let me cry for quite a while and then sat me upright. She explained, “You see now why we are here this summer. Pop can’t fight the Diabetes much longer. We need to be here to see him through til the end. It’s important that he be surrounded by the ones he loves.” Greif and shock poured over me in waves of icy slush; my blood ran cold and I shook uncontrollably. I had never experienced the death of a loved one and was convinced that the people I cared about would always be with me. Surprisingly, it only took a moment for me to do away with my self-pity. I was determined to make these last weeks the best days of Pop’s life.
Despite my good intentions I fell into a well of helplessness. I was fifteen and he was frail. What could I possibly do? I couldn’t take him for a horseback ride or play catch with him. The whole situation was surreal and I flailed like a young deer afraid to take a step. I quietly roamed around the huge ranch house hoping some inspiration would come to me. I sat in the library, a beautiful cool and dark room lit only by a few sconces. My grandparents (he a former English teacher and she a retired librarian) were avid readers. This trait was carried on by my mother. I realized that several of the titles on these built in cabinets were the same as the ones lining our shelves back in Connecticut. It made this foreign place seem homier and more familiar. And that’s when it hit me. Diabetes had robbed Pop of most of his sight and he was no longer able to pursue his passion for reading. That was just rotten, a low blow by that stupid disease. But I’d be able to bring him back to the ring.
I grabbed his favorite book, The Old Man and The Sea by Ernest Hemingway, and scurried into his bedroom. I found him on his bed taking an afternoon rest but right away he scooched over and made room for me beside him. I began reading aloud and didn’t stop until dinnertime. Often he would interrupt me to comment about symbolism and theme, among other literary techniques that I had not formerly understood or appreciated. I found a new joy in reading this story. Back in eighth grade it had been assigned for Summer Reading and I had hated it. An entire book to discuss a 2-3 day fishing trip? Then the trip ends in disaster? Nothing had grabbed my attention and I had found the whole story boring. This time was different. Now I understood why the book was Pop’s favorite. The deeper levels of inner conflict and the theme of perseverance were so beautifully and subtly brought to life. I could feel the pain in my own hands as the old man towed the line.
My grandfather and I cheered for the old fisherman even though we both knew his battle was futile. The novel, written many years ago by a complete stranger, was so timely. I felt it had been written just for Pop and I. One quote still sticks with me, “They were strange shoulders, still powerful although very old…..Everything about him was old except his eyes. They were the same color as the sea and were cheerful and undefeated.” Pop was my very own Santiago and I was his Manolin. In three days I learned about his days in the Navy, the ports he had visited and the cultures he had experienced. He said I taught him that tomorrow was a new day and it was worth fighting for. Hemingway’s theme had come to life right there in Kansas.
Two books and four weeks later Pop passed away. Through sharing To Kill a Mockingbird and Of Mice and Men I learned more and more about Pop and about life. Losing him was devastating, but he had given me so much. I learned to appreciate a new lifestyle (riding horses, feeding chickens and branding cattle) and to open my mind to new experiences. The world is a big, big place and it is worth exploring. Most of all, I learned how books can unite people from all walks of life, from generation to generation. So while the world is enormous and full of possibility, all the people of this world face similar struggles and have similar dreams. I didn’t need a trip to Oz to teach me about the important things in life. I had Pop and the summer that changed my life forever.